My daughter doesn't like to play video games that have to do with a bunch of guns or fighting, (like her brother likes to play). She is searching for a video game that she would enjoy. She loves fashion and other girly stuff, but doesn't like to play those Barbie or Bratz games, (she is 12).Bored? Enjoy Classic Arcade Games on Your PC.
animal crossing ^^ you can design clothes for your character on it 
She might like The Sims series. Many people love it although you should check the games out yourself because they have some content you may not feel comfortable with your daughter playing.
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Maybe Kingdom Hearts 1 or 2.
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Hm…The Harvest Moon Series might work, plus you can never go wrong with Mario!
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Hard to find games without fighting or objectional content. Nintendo's games are pretty good, like Mario.
Games based on movies(ie cars, barnyard) usually arent the greatest games, but pretty mellow, if that's what you're looking for.
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theres harvest moon a wonderful life for girls
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sims games,mario party,sports games,thrillville,harvest moon,flushed away,spongebob games
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Sonic the hedgehog games,Zelda games, Maybe the metroid series:the main character Samus Aran is a female
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animal crossing ^^ you can design clothes for your character on it
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Harvest moon is about farming, Animal crossing is just like Life, and any Mario game is good for everyone
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personal experances